Since it’s summer and this mindset begins to pop up more, let us clarify something.
Girls being upset over being seen in bra/panties but not bikinis is not a double standard.
If she’s in a bikini, it’s what she consciously chose to wear and be seen in, in a public space, and like any outfit she was prepared to be seen in it by other people.
If you’ve caught a girl in her underwear, however, you’re probably trespassing in her bedroom, bathroom, or other personal space, where she should be in privacy, and she has every right to be upset if that privacy is violated.
It’s not about what she’s wearing or what it is covering, but rather her privacy and consent to be seen in the first place. Please respect that.
Omg, amazing that someone thought to explain this
About time a cyclops set that porpoise straight
I HAVE ALWAYS SAID THIS!! A bikini is something you pick and are meant to be seen in public in, a bra and panties are private (unless, you know…) and ARE NOT MEANT TO BE ON DISPLAY!! (Unless, you know…)
This absolutely disgusts me beyond anything. NO ONE should ever be bullied based on their sexual preference. It is NOT a choice and bullying someone for something they can’t help is what’s wrong with today’s society. I was Googling articles on suicidal stories for gay teens and found MILLIONS of results. That’s disgusting. This “choice” that people like me are making has resulted in the highest rates of suicide among any group of individuals. If it was a choice wouldn’t you think we’d change to avoid all of this? Unfortunately that’s not how it works and just as teens start accepting themselves they get even more shit from people. If that’s not bad enough imagine this. Imagine being kicked out of your home because your parents don’t agree with you. Imagine not being able to go to church because you’re seen as a walking sin going to hell. Imagine walking down the halls and getting beat up. All of these are things that happen in the life of a gay adolescent. Why is it people hate people solely on liking someone of the same gender? WHY! How does that possibly bother you in any way?? It’s not even any of your business anyways. In no way does it affect your way of living. I really hope you didn’t scroll past this simply because it had the word gay in it and you don’t want to have anything to do with it. Please just know what a gay teen like me struggles through EVERY day. I’m not going to make you reblog this but if you did that would be nice to help show people how hard it is to live like this. I hope it opened your eyes and maybe if you see a gay person walking the halls; please say hi and let them know it’s okay. That’s all we really want is to have people who care. When we have no one there for us, that’s when gay teens decide to take their own lives.
The guy who wrote this is my god.
We can’t change who we are, we are born homosexuals and I really don’t understand what’s wrong with it. Everybody likes different clothes, music, hobbies; so why can’t we love who we want?! In my school I always hear people using the word “gay” as an insult and it pisses me off, but reading this, it makes me so sad. We live in such a fucking broken world. RIP for all those guys who didn’t deserve all the hell they have been trough for their sexuality.
Regretting all we’ll never be
star crossed, storm tossed
lovers lost within the afterglow
forever living only to regret
the love I felt but couldn’t show
no one calling, teardrops falling
this will never again be good
but please remember if you can
I loved you the best I could